Conflicts arise when people have different views and then we are trapped in a tug of war. We are trapped in loss when we attach, would not let go or associate with whatever or whoever we are dealing with.
The meaning of Hanji or Chinese Characters of “Danshari” is detach, let go and dissociate.(Some parts are similar to Chuang Tzu’s teachings and Zen).
Problem at Hand : (e.g.Conflicts and Loss)
Free Easy Ways of Danshari
- What am I determined to do?
- Identify problem, understand cause and nature of things?
Problem: Conflicts and Loss
Cause and Nature of Conflict: (Zen and Chuang Tzu)
Cause and Nature of Loss:
- What cannot be changed?
Identify. Accept. (Chuang Tzu) Detach, let go and dissociate .
- Rise beyond and view from above.
(Chuang Tzu. Also remember “See one and not the loss”)
- What can be done?
- How to innovate unique interpretation?
New Unique Interpretation:
Need (Is there a real need?)
Fit (Does it fit?)
Comfortable (Do you feel at ease with it? Chuang Tzu)
- Self-reliant, free and easy (Chuang Tzu)
- Love and affirm